We’ve all done it. Said yes when we wanted to scream no. Smiled through things we didn’t agree with. Became who others wanted us to be just to avoid rocking the boat.
But here’s the truth:People pleasing isn’t kindness. It’s self-abandonment dressed up as being “nice.”
In this month’s Do You Dialogue, we’re calling BS on this toxic pattern that so many of us — especially women and those raised in high-pressure cultures — were taught to wear like a badge of honour.
We’ll unpack:
- Why people pleasing really shows up (hint: it’s not your fault)
- How it’s quietly robbing you of your time, energy, and identity
- What it would look like to stop performing and start choosing yourself
✨ What to Expect:
- Safe, casual circle of humans who get it
- A guided reflection to explore where you’ve been people-pleasing on autopilot
- Open sharing (only if you want — lurking is also allowed)
- Permission to stop betraying yourself in the name of being liked
Sign up and we will send over a google cal link to join!!
