How To Flirt

Join us for an intimate and fun flirting clinic with Noorindah, the founder of Shy & Curious, and Etty Astika , a former matchmaker, as we play Aunt Agony to your dating woes and give advice to charm that crush while being yourself in this 2h session!

Are you perfectly capable of having a conversation yet get tongue-tied in the presence of your crush? Or wondered how to date without feeling anxious or fake? Have a situationship you can’t figure out whether to stay or go? Share with us your current challenge and get your questions answered and learn practical techniques to improve your existing style by Etty and Noorindah.

Whether you’re trying to get their attention in real life or stand out in their inbox on dating apps, think of it as running by your love life with your besties who’ll want the best for you!

This sharing session is geared towards anyone curious about flirting and how to be more confident. We aim to create a safe space so please note that this is not a pick-up class or singles mixer. Please come with an open mind as we’re here to exchange stories and guide you on how to improve your flirting game if you choose to do so!

Meet the Facilitators

Noorindah IskandarShy & CuriousNoorindah is the founder of Shy & Curious (https://shyandcurious.com), an online platform that explores sex and love without the fear of having to hide your Google search history. Through personal essays, workshops and a sense of humour, she helps to demystify taboo topics and unlearn shame & guilt around sexual wellness, relationships and self-discovery for the shy yet curious at heart. Shy & Curious has been featured by The Straits Times, Channel News Asia, WGSN Trends New York, Her World and Rice Media.

Etty Astika

Etty stumbled into matchmaking but stayed for the magic. Turning casual chats into deep connections and making people feel like the main character. Flirting? That's her second language. From cheeky "Do you miss me?"s to her kopi uncle to compliments that land just right, she's got the charm to make hearts flutter and egos blush.

With a bold blend of confidence, curiosity, and connection, she brings playful energy into every room. When she's not charming people, she's tangoing, throwing punches in Muay Thai, lifting heavy, or building an athleisure brand with her besties

— all while crushing it at IKEA Singapore.